By Patara Williams
Where did the time go?!
On Friday, I will be attending my last After Dark (all university talent show) as an undergrad.
On Saturday, I will be taking the GRE (Graduate Records Exam), a glorified SAT-type test that is required in order to apply for Graduate School.
Next Wednesday, I will be attending a HIREABEAR job fair. Paying for one’s own rent is not fun, but it is a segue into grownup-hood.
In 94 days, I will be graduating from Baylor University!
Last week, I dreamed that I was staring into a mirror with my cap and gown on…anxious much Patara?
I’ve recently found myself overusing the phrase, “If I knew then (freshman year), what I know now…”
I was the epitome of stubborn as a freshman. I knew that I would never change my major, I knew that I would maintain with a 4.0 GPA, I knew that I would go to a Texas medical school and I definitely knew I would graduate in 8 semesters.
I knew wrong.
My four and a half (yes, I’m elderly) years as an undergrad have slapped me in the face on innumerable occasions. The personal timeline that I drew out for myself told me what I would do, when I would do it and how I would get to the point where I wanted to be. However, it didn’t control for the learning experiences that I would inadvertently encounter.
Along the way, I have learned what I do not: like, agree with, believe in and so on. The Patara that I knew freshman year is totally different from Patara that I know now.
She now knows that life will throw curveballs at you, really fast ones.
She now knows that her life may not work out the way she planned, but will eventually end up magnificent.
And she now knows the essence of a Baylor education.
So, she tells you to:
Embrace your time as a student. Challenge yourself with opposing viewpoints. Question what you believe, so that you can know why you believe it. Learn to listen to others; it means much more than just giving advice or empty feedback. Don’t be afraid to spend time getting to know who you are because you’ll be forced to reckon with the perceptions of the rest of the world. Enjoy your time here because pretty soon you’ll be saying, “If I knew then what I know now.”