By Kilani Ju
After making the ultimate decision to attend Baylor University, I knew that my life would change completely. Not only would it be the first time I moved in general, but I was also moving out of state and away from my family. I knew that not seeing family would be extremely difficult, and flying back to California would be a rare occasion.
Since transferring to Baylor, I have lived away from home for about two and half years. My first semester in Texas was especially difficult because I was adjusting to my new life living away from home. It was challenging but in a positive way. I wouldn’t be the same person I am today had I not made the decision to move far away. I grew as an individual, I became more independent and most importantly, I discovered that it was possible to live on my own. I learned that as long as you keep in contact with your family through FaceTime, Skype, emails, letters, text messages or phone calls, it’s not bad living away from home.
I make it a priority to talk to my family at least a few times a week. It’s important to not only update them on what’s happening in my life, but to also see what they are up to as well. As a college student, classes and outside activities can take over your life, so I recommend that you look over your daily schedule beforehand and set a time to contact your family. You may think your parents are relieved to have you out of the house, but trust me, they love you too much to not miss you. Give them a call!