resonating quote

Ran across this quote this weekend that has a universally applicable message:

“Part of her initial task on arrival was to understand the history and community that she was becoming a part of.”

Over and over again in life I see so many people that fail to embrace this listening, observing, learning spirit. They rush in and take charge, looking to make a name for themselves, having no regard for the history and culture of a community. If each of us sought to understand first, to listen first, we would all be wiser and the world would be a better place.

This quote comes from: Lady Almina and the Real Downton Abbey: The Lost Legacy of Highclere Castle by The Countess of Carnarvon – a fabulous must read for any Dowton Abbey fans!

Diadeloso Anniversary

Today is Diadeloso, Baylor’s “Day of the Bear” celebration. It’s a day the students (mostly) have off from classes and the library is a little quieter than most days. But the real reason Diadeloso is important to me is because twenty two years ago, Diadeloso was my “first date” with Ann – the love of my life. It was a great day not only because of our first date, but because we’d been friends for the past year while dating other people and finally (just the night before) came to the realization that we really liked each other! Back in those days (he says in his old-timey narrator voice), Diadeloso was held on what is now the parking lot in front of the Student Life Center and Baylor Science Building. Back then that spot was the practice field for the marching band and the intramural fields, stretching all the way from Ft. Faculty to University Parks. It’s strange to think that many of the students celebrating Diadeloso today (now on the mall between the libraries and Pat Neff hall) weren’t even born yet when Ann and I first attended Dia together (some of them not even for a couple more years!) As I write this, there’s booming music from the celebration shaking the walls of the library, but despite that, it brings a smile to my face each year this time when I think about that this event, going on now, is a wonderful reminder of a similar day, twenty two years ago. And while I didn’t know it on that day way back then, my life would be forever changed by that wonderful person. Happy Diadeloso, Ann!

stuff i’m reading at the moment

revisiting Daniel Pink’s Drive: The Surprising Truth about What Motivates Us

Daniel Pink’s The Flip Manifesto: 16 Counterintuitive Ideas about Motivation, Innovation, and Leadership –which you can get just for signing up for Dan’s newsletter (and you should!)

Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey’s Immunity to Change: How to Overcome It and Unlock Potential in Yourself and Your Organization

Susan Cain’s Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking

Brian Matthew’s Think Like a Startup: A white paper to inspire library entrepreneurialism

random stuff i’m mulling over/pondering/interested in 2.29.12

firewalling your attention (chapter in Lifehacker founder Gina Trapani’s book “Upgrade Your Life
http://ginatrapani.org/

streamlining and economizing instruction – cut the fat!  http://t.co/uzkkekzT

technology, media, and communications predictions for 2012 http://bit.ly/whfUFb

workplace readiness skills – in contrast to whatever kind of skills we think we’re creating in academia. this stuff seems more universal, more important than knowing the longest river in the united states or how many planets there are (today, anyway!) and what their order is
http://www.cteresource.org/downloads/1/wrs_poster_2012.pdf

managing professional (or any!) information overload: http://lonewolflibrarian.wordpress.com/2012/02/21/managing-professional-information-overload-02-21-12/ @LONEWOLFMLS for passing along and @hbraum for the prez

how people spend their time online
http://lonewolflibrarian.wordpress.com/2012/02/29/how-people-spend-their-time-online-02-29-12/

thoughts on death and life and meaning

yesterday’s news was full of the death of Steve Jobs, the face and imagination behind Apple. Today’s news is full of reflections on him and his contributions. One of the things I just read (via Flipboard on a iPad, btw) was a reflection entitled “Why We Mourn Steve Jobs” in Atlantic Monthly that ended with an interesting quote by Jobs:

Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

It’s an interesting quote, which maybe draws one to linger a little longer in light of the recent death of the person who said it.

What are your thoughts on what he had to say? I think if you see yourself as “the new” it might be easy to embrace the thought as you think about your own personal run-ins with the face of “old”: the slow driver, the resistance to change, the confused, the ailing, the grumpy. But what if you’re sensing you’re farther removed from “the old” than you once were or hoped to be? How does viewing yourself as “the old” change how you view your life, your purpose, your time left? Does it frighten you? Does is push you to find meaning? Does it cause you to be an agent of change? Does it inspire you to help “the new”?

What if you are “the new”? Knowing you’re on your way to “the old” – how does that change things?

In Jobs’ famous commencement speech at Stanford in 2005, he said: “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.”

He was talking to “the new”, but this challenge is universally applicable. It’s just as relevant to “the old.”

He also said, “you’ve got to find what you love,” which I think goes hand in hand with the challenge.

What are your thoughts on your time, your love, your contribution? your frailty? your purpose?