Ruyu Qin:

According to the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator, I am type one personality, which is realistic, conscientious, and principled. Many advantages as a type one personality may benefit to become a public health advisor, which includes putting facts together, coming up with good understandings and figuring out wise solutions for a community.

 

The Perfectionist/Reformer

Perfectionists are realistic, conscientious, and principled,and strive to live up to their high ideals.


How to Get Along with Me

  1. Take your share of the responsibility so I don’t end up with all the work.
  2. Acknowledge my achievements.
  3. I’m hard on myself. Reassure me that I’m fine the way I am.
  4. Tell me that you value my advice.
  5. Be fair and considerate, as I am.
  6. Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive.
  7. Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first.

What I Like About Being a One

  1. Being self-disciplined and able to accomplish a great deal
  2. Working hard to make the world a better place
  3. Having high standards and ethics; not compromising myself
  4. Being reasonable, responsible, and dedicated in everything I do
  5. Being able to put facts together, coming to good understandings, and figuring out wise solutions
  6. Being the best I can be and bringing out the best in other people

What’s Hard About Being a One

  1. Being disappointed with myself or others when my expectations are not met
  2. Feeling burdened by too much responsibility
  3. Thinking that what I do is never good enough
  4. Not being appreciated for what I do for people
  5. Being upset because others aren’t trying as hard as I am
  6. Obsessing about what I did or what I should do
  7. Being tense, anxious, and taking things too seriously
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