By Katie Abbott–Student
Money, we all have it. Some may have more than others, but we still all have some amount of it. What we chose to do with it is a different story though. I have learned the hard way that it is so important to create a plan so that you don’t let your money dwindle away. I’m going to turn this into a three step series on how to be successful in handling your money.
Let’s jump in! I think that the first step should be to take an honest look at your finances. This was definitely the hardest part for me because I wanted to keep spending. I wanted to go out with my friends to dinners and events. Those all required me to spend money. A lot of money. Then I would look in my bank account at the beginning of the week and realize I was in the negatives. I came to the realization that I should never be allowed to own a credit card. I would destroy my credit in a week at the rate I was spending my money.
This was when I decided to get serious and take a real hard look at myself and decided to look at my finances with an honest eye. I knew I couldn’t (and shouldn’t) live paycheck to paycheck. I realized that I needed to begin spending less than I earned. I know that we all want to say yes when we are invited out, but it is okay to say no. Here are some benefits of saying no and spending less than you earn:
You start to save
This is huge! Instead of being in the negatives all the time you can actually build up a savings. I was always taught that it was incredibly important to keep a few hundred dollars in your savings so if anything ever happened, I would be okay. So let’s call your savings account your “stuff happens” account. Ultimately, we don’t want to touch that account at all.
You can actually say yes!
Once you have started saving more, you can say yes more because you do have that money. I’m not saying that you resort to your old ways, but keep in check your actual figure in your account and if it is feasible for you to spend that money, then go for it! I always try to look at my account before I spend anything so that I can set an actual limit on how much I am going to spend, and decide if it’s even a good idea to spend any of it at all.
You don’t have to completely cut yourself off
Spending less doesn’t have to be drastic, and it shouldn’t be. A lot of people who practice more extreme money saving techniques do this because they’ve done easier steps, and have been very successful.
Now that doesn’t seem too hard! But the honest truth is it kind of is. You have to really want to change your spending habits. Then once you’ve committed to that, taking a real good honest look at your bank account is the next thing. We all need to do it every once and a while. We don’t want to, but we need to. You can do it!